"PAIRS is a splendid preparation toward enabling couples to develop new satisfying patterns of relationship based on high self-worth for each one."

Virginia Satir

"This training was incredible. As a clinician, I have been to numerous trainings over the years. There was something so real and practical about this training. The exercises really pulled at the heart strings and made you really think and process things."

VA Social Worker

“After forty years as a psychiatrist and marital therapist, PAIRS is my most valuable professional and personal tool.”

Clifford Sager, MD

“PAIRS is radical in its simplicity and its hands-on-approach … a unique and profoundly effective way to build and heal relationships.”

Don Adams, PhD


Next Training Begins
March 31, 2025

Training dates: Five consecutive Mondays, 1pm to 3pm Eastern, beginning March 31, 2025.

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Greater than 99% of Graduates Recommend PAIRS!

PAIRS Essentials

Online, Experiential, Certificate Training

For Singles, Couples and Professionals

  • Experience improved mental health and emotional resilience, reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
  • Strengthen healthy relationships with family, friends, and community members.
  • Expand perception boxes, opening up new possibilities for personal and professional growth.


Perception Box is a metaphor we use to explain how every human alive experiences the world

differently depending on the meaning we created from past events and encounters.





Led by National Trainers Seth Eisenberg and Rachel Marmor, LMHC.


Space is Limited, Scholarships Available.




PAIRS NATIONAL TRAINER

RACHEL MARMOR, LMHC



Rachel is passionate about empowering people to overcome challenges, achieve their goals, and lead fulfilling lives.


Rachel is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, a trainer, researcher, and an educator. She has helped thousands of couples and individuals with various mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma and addiction. 


In addition to her professional pursuits, Rachel enjoys spending time with her family, traveling, and spending time outdoors. She also volunteers her time with organizations that meet the needs of underserved populations in her community.



“I’m far more in love with [my husband] than ever … I believe PAIRS had an important part in that process.”

Rita DeMaria, Ph.D.

Marriage and Family Therapist

Philadelphia, PA

“We have moved so far in how to listen and how to be responsible in talking to one another.”

Linda Caroll

Marriage and Family Therapist

Corvallis, OR

“My parents became a lot more loving after they went through PAIRS … they know how to work their problems out.”

Erica Anderson

Daughter of PAIRS Graduates

Boulder, CO


PAIRS NATIONAL TRAINER

SETH EISENBERG

 

As a Master Trainer, Seth has delivered PAIRS class and training to thousands of singles and couples of all ages and stages of relationship over more than a quarter century.


He serves as President/CEO of PAIRS Foundation, which was originally established by his mother, Dr. Lori Heyman Gordon, in 1983.


Learn more and connect with Seth via LinkedIn.

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Enrollment Information

PAIRS Essentials Online classes take place over 10 hours of training divided into five sessions. Each session will provide practical techniques to enrich and deepen the relationships you value most. Training participants are encouraged to practice exercises and engage in supplemental activities outside of class time.


The sessions for this series are (all times are Eastern):


Session 1: Monday, March 31, 2025, 1:00PM - 3:00PM
Session 2: Monday, April 7, 2025, 1:00PM - 3:00PM

Session 3: Monday, April 14, 2025, 1:00PM - 3:00PM
Session 4: Monday, April 21, 2025, 1:00PM - 3:00PM
Session 5: Monday, April 28, 2025, 1:00PM - 3:00PM


Experienced, licensed trainers are committed to ensuring your success through each session and for follow-up discussions.


For the public, including singles, couples and families participating solely to benefit their personal and professional relationships, tuition is $495. The fee is per connection. The fee includes all course materials.


Tuition for professionals seeking certification as PAIRS licensed coaches is $2,500. In addition to the five sessions, certification candidates will participate in additional training with a PAIRS Trainer and also have access to PAIRS video training library. A limited number of scholarships are available for professionals serving military/veteran families, communities impacted by trauma, and for university students. The fee includes all course materials and an extensive curriculum guide.


Register here.

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